Fiction – paperback; Doubleday Ireland; 260 pages; 2020.
We Are Not in the World by Conor O’Callaghan is a haunting, heartbreaking novel about an Irishman trying to come to terms with two major events in his life: the breakdown of a six-year affair with a married woman and the hospitalisation of his beloved young adult daughter who has tried to take her own life.
The narrative is comprised of two threads: the man’s road journey through France as a novice truck driver delivering unspecified goods for a mysterious man named Carl; and the tale of his illicit affair, told in reverse chronological order from break-up to initial meeting.
The first thread is told in the first person; the second in the second person.
It’s set in August 2015, before the Brexit referendum, in which “the whole landscape of continental haulage could change indefinitely and not for any good.” Refugees, fleeing war-torn Syria, Afghanistan and Iraq, are on the news, and when Paddy arrives in Calais from Dover, it’s hard to ignore their inpoverished presence, in the “jungle” and on the streets around town.
The road is lined with wire fencing, fingers pushed through, faces pressed against. Behind them, waves of tents and shacks. The fence is staring at us. And we’re trying not to make eye contact, with the fence. A truck with an Irish reg gets pulled out of the contraflow. Live bodies, one by one, are prised from its chassis.
Accompanying him on this journey is his 20-something American-raised daughter, Kitty, who, as it turns out, is making the trip as a “clandestine” — Paddy is not supposed to have passengers on board — and spends most of her time hidden in the sleeping alcove behind the driver’s seat. Paddy deliberately times their rest stops and overnight stays at unsociable hours to avoid other truck drivers, including the aforementioned Carl, making the same journey and spotting Kitty.
Their time together, whether in the truck’s cabin or sharing a meal in roadside cafes, is conveyed largely through Roddy-Doyle-esque dialogue:
This, she says staring straight ahead.
These more like.
I’m gonna need a few specifics, darling, please.
There you go again.
These what are a bit what?
Carparks, she says.
They’re a bit samey.
She is: bored in her reclined passenger seat, in shades and King of the Road cap, rambling aimlessly. I am: about to go indoors to check that it’s safe for her to join me, working overtime to humour her along, inclined to lose track of days that we’ve been here.
They are, I suppose.
They are, aren’t they?
It’s not just me, she says.
Not just you, love.
Same nothing spaces, she says. Same caffs, same staff, same drab grub. Same sun even, same dome of unblemished friggin azure over our heads.
As the journey unfolds, we learn more about Paddy’s tormented past, his childhood with his beloved mother, also called Kitty, and the strained relationship with his younger brother, Art, who is the “golden child” and executor of their mother’s will in which he is the major beneficiary.
Art also has a very close relationship with his niece, who is also his godchild, and it’s hard not to see that perhaps he has been more of a father figure to her than her own father and this is why this particular road trip, spending time together, is so important to Paddy: he needs to repair their fractured relationship.
We also learn the details of Paddy’s affair, the strange time he spent living in a snow-bound caravan in his lover’s back garden, and the forbidden trysts in stairwells, public toilets and other daring locations.
There’s an achingly sad side trip to Camargue to try to locate a house where Paddy’s mother stayed as a young girl, and another confronting scene in which Paddy is expected to partake in what appears to be a “gang bang” in a wood involving lots of other truck drivers. (He declines.)
An opaque but unforgettable story
Much of the story is opaque and occasionally confusing. Sometimes it’s difficult to know whether references to Kitty are to Kitty the daughter or Kitty the mother. I suspect this is deliberate.
And just like O’Callaghan’s wonderful debut novel, Nothing on Earth, which I read a few years ago, the story is infused with a strange, almost elusive, sense of foreboding. It feels both sinister and enigmatic at the same time.
It’s the kind of novel that is hard work, for you have to piece together bits of information in your own head and come to your own conclusions about what is really going on, but it is entirely worth the effort. (We never find out what Paddy is transporting, for instance, and why Carl encourages him to rig the tachometer readings because he appears to otherwise observe all the haulier rules about driving limits and rest times.)
The ending, when it comes, is like a sucker punch to the stomach. I’ve been thinking about it ever since I finished this book a few days ago. Combined with the unsettling nature of the story, the beautiful language and the difficult subjects tackled, including familial and forbidden relationships, We Are Not in the World is a truly indelible read.
If you like this, you might also like:
‘Travelling in a Strange Land’ by David Park: The story of a photographer from Northern Ireland driving across a snowbound England to rescue his ill son stranded in his student lodgings.
10 thoughts on “‘We Are Not in the World’ by Conor O’Callaghan”
You’ve sold this to me. Sadly, it’s not in our library system, but I’ll look out for it.
I was very happy to find this one in my local library as I had enjoyed his debut very much. Hope you get to track down a copy, Margaret.
As you know, I adored this one. It is so beautifully written and expertly structured. It’s one of the only books I’ve reread in recent years. Such a shame it was released at the height of the pandemic. I think it would have got a lot more attention otherwise. Lovely review Kim.
Thanks Cathy. It’s a five-star read for me; I can’t get it out of my head. I actually borrowed this one from the library but feel the need to buy my own copy so I can read it again.
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This sounds like one for the wishlist!
Five stars, Lisa. I have been thinking about it for days. It’s going to be a story that stays with me forever, I think.
You got me at truck driver of course. I have the kids and sometimes wives under blankets (or behind curtains) in the sleeper on any number of occasions. In Australia it’s generally mine/factory staff who’ll give you grief, other drivers don’t care.
But I like that dialogue too and how you’ve described the structure. I’ve done ok so far with your Irish recommendations so let’s make this another (I hope the author gets the trucking bits right!).
I did think of you when I read this book and wondered whether you would regard the trucking bits as authentic or not. He’s a novice truck driver and this is his first big trip so I guess any mistakes could be put down to that. He does have to check his chassis for refugee stowaways, which I’m not sure happens in Australia! I borrowed this from Freo Library so if you are a member you’ll be able to find it on the shelves there.
Thanks Kim, If I’m not or my daughter’s not, I’ll get it by ILL
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